Focus Friday: Your Situation Is Not Your Destination

I am going to keep this sweet, petite and straight to the point. While I do feel like I speak about this topic a lot, I think it is important to do so. Nearly every single week I hear from friends or even strangers online who talk about how they feel stuck in their situation. Hell, even I am one of those friends who feels stuck sometimes.

So, listen up my splendid friends, fam and followers there is no reason why you can’t elevate to the next level. However, there is also no reason to rush it. Life comes in steps, pieces and within the allotted time that it needs to. You have no reason to try to jump from building to building in hopes of leaping to your success immediately. I’ve talk about microwave success before, like in that one post I told you all to take life One Step At a Time

Nonetheless, we must remain guarded from these moments of impatience in life. Yes there are some situations that seem to go on and on forever. Also, there are some situations that I will be honest won’t quite fit with this post in itself. But, for the more minor situations where we feel like we simply aren’t getting what we want or fand never will, this post is perfect. 

“You have no reason to try to jump from building to building in hopes of leaping to your success immediately.”

One of the ways we actually become or remain stuck in life is when we start to believe that things cannot change. Our mindset plays an overwhelmingly large part in how we view our life. With that said, if your perspective is in a dark & gloomy state, chances are that is how things will continue to go. They say that your “Energy flows where your attention goes.” To paint the picture more clear for you, remember how on cartoons when a character was having a terrible day you’d see that dark rain cloud over their head the whole episode. Well, that is basically how our lives can be. When we become so invested in these feelings of negativity, the universe responds to that and I also believe God begins to truly test your faith here (for those who are believers).

Overall, the more we turn our attention to how bad things are, the more those problems are amplified. Of course, the pain may not automatically go away like an on & off switch BUT now you are experiencing these issues on a much deeper scope.

“Our mindset plays an overwhelmingly large part in how we view our life.”

While I understand it is hard to see past the rubble of life when you feel you are buried underneath it but it is worth it to at least try to focus on how you will feel once you are out of the situation. Once you begin to visualize and consider how good that will feel, that is when your faith begins to grow as well. It also helps you to pass the time while you are experiencing hardship.

Things to Remember

1) Don’t rush your situation, there are lessons to be learned even in the darkest of days

2) The more you focus on negative circumstances the more they are amplified

3) Consider how it will feel once you are out if it aka visualize

 

P.S. I know that these steps or words of advice are easier said than done. I’ll admit it is a process but it is also possible. So before you think this can’t or won’t apply to your life, try it first 

 

 

 

 

Serenity, Smiles & Positive Vibes,

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ms. Royale

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Author: Ms. Royale

Ms. Royale, is a Creative Writer, the founder and content provider of She Is Splendid Blog. She obtained a B.A. in Psychology from Montclair State University with a minor in Creative Writing. Further, she is also an aspiring novelist, motivational speaker, and psychologist. Currently Ms. Royale is a Freelance Writer, Inspiration Specialist and Quote Enthusiast.

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  1. Thanks for sharing, Ms. Royale. I definitely feel like life moves too slow. I feel like I’ve been in school forever. I feel like I’ve been stuck and unsure of what I want to do with my life forever. I feel like everyone else has it figured out and I’m like, frozen in time. But, I like how you say that there are always lessons to be learned. I think that helps me to slow down and stop worrying so much when I realize that every new year in school or every new year of me figuring it out is a new year of lessons and insights that will help me succeed in the future.

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    1. No problem! Thank you for sharing how this made you feel too. Trust me I get that feeling sometimes too, I felt and sometimes still feel like I’m not quite sure what to do with my life as well. But, I think the fact that we are at least thinking about it we are on the right path. I may not know you directly but I am so proud of your educational journey. You took a big step that many are afraid to even think about! Continue embracing those lessons 🙂

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