Today’s challenge is slightly strange to me because it’s a topic that I’m a bit conflicted about. The topic for day 20 is “Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future.” This whole idea of marriage is something that I am completely at peace with in terms of myself. So honestly to answer this topic I would just say, “nope, not for me,” but for the purpose of this I’ll play along.
If I were to ever meet someone at the altar, I would want this person to be extremely laid back like myself. Not too laid back to the point where they fall back and don’t take care of business but I would need them to be a little free spirited. I would also want this individual to have a love for God and have respect for the spiritual world.
This person would also have to be extremely driven and determined to reach their goals in life. They would definitely need to be educated enough to engage in intellectual conversations with me BUT be fun enough to spit lyrics to Juvenile’s Back Dat Ass Up on any given day. This person would have to compassionate, generous, and have a huge heart for others. They would also have to be socially aware and overall understanding of issues from multiple perspectives.
All in all, whomever (if ever) I were to marry needs to be able to match my vibe on so many levels. I’m sure there are other tiny bits of info I could insert into this post but for the most if I were to marry someone they would have to have at least half of these qualities.
But, I am only 23 with no plans of moving in the direction of marriage anytime soon. Plus, I’m more attracted to the Oprah and Shonda Rhimes kind of “no marriage/get money,” wave at the moment. Kudos to those bad-ass successful women!
I don’t really have an open ended question for you all today but I guess I’ll say, write 3 words that would describe your ideal boo, bae or spouse. Comment below!
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